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To start, let me say that my aunt and her family got Boomer's sister, Zeena, last October when the puppies 8 weeks old (They are now 10 months). My aunt had wanted a second dog as her son's companion because they had just moved to a new town close to ours.
We were very successful right from the beginning in training,raising, and housebreaking Boomer. Because my aunt had never raised a puppy, I gave her advice and tips. She, however, being very stubborn, thought she knew what she was doing. Zeena had the run of the house from 8 weeks on, and was constantly treated with inconsistant discipline. She was probably on 3 or 4 different foods before switching to one that worked, her "sleeping arrangement" constantly changed from room to room, she wasn't not socialized except with my dogs, and she was scolded when finding a potty accident from hours before (making her very hard to housetrain). My aunt wanted to crate train, but after only two or three days gave up because Zeena constantly cried in the crate. (And ok, we didn't crate train Boomer either :oops:. But we did keep him confined to the kitchen)
As time passed, I've reprimanded my aunt hundreds of times, trying to get her to change the way she was bringing up Zeena. My aunt would change something she was doing and then give up again.
Zeena was also very hyper, with a more labby personality. They hired a trainer for $600 which helped some but not all.

As you might imagine, by now Zeena is one messed up dog. She is practically not housetrained at all, and when she meets other dogs, she tries to nip out of fear (not being socialized). My aunt doesn't see that she is the reason for Zeena's problems, no matter what I try to tell her.

A few weeks ago, they found Zeena a new home. Everything seemed ok, the new owners didn't mind trying to housebreak her, but after 2 weeks, they got fed up. They said that she began attacking their golden retriever and becoming food aggressive.
Now, back at my aunt's, Zeena has continued this "attacking" and often goes towards their other dog's neck. I don't feel this is really aggressive behavior, but more in play.
She often poops in the house upwards of 3 times a day. In my opinion, this is probably because of her food. She is on California Natural. Not the worst food out there, but it could be better. Also, she constantly gets to the cat food. Instead of moving it, my aunt just deals with diahrrea. :roll:

So the real problem now is that my aunt and her family is going on vacation on Saturday and don't want to "deal" with Zeena anymore. They are considering euthanasia. I am literally outraged. I would consider taking her myself, but with a family of six, plus two dogs and three cats, its not possible for me to take on an unhousetrained dog.

I need advice - not on what my aunt should have done better because I know what she did wrong, but on what to do about this situation.
I told her to contact our breeder who stated she would be there for the life of our dogs. My aunt says that they wouldn't be able to ship Zeena to the breeder by Saturday. (We're in CT, the breeder is in OH).
I am frusterated that she is giving up and doesn't understand what she did wrong in the first place. And none of this is fair to Zeena!

Does anyone have any ideas? Or know of a good home that would work with Zeena?
I don't have any recent pictures of her, but this one was from when she was about 12 weeks old:


I need help!
(and sorry this is so long)
 

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Thanks for replying so quickly and trying to help.

I am working on getting her conviced not to euthanize Zeena...I don't think she actually will, but the threat still looms.
I also just found out that my aunt did send an email to a lab-rescue, so hopefully they'll be willing to take her in.

Oh, and we're located in southwest CT.
 

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Right now I am waiting to see what the lab rescue wrote my aunt back...
Also, once she or her husband emails me a recent picture I will send Shannon the info to post on the poomix rescue site.

I will make sure Zeena doesn't get killed even if I take her myself a few days.

And congratulations on becoming a Grandma! :D
 

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I was trying not to seem like it, but the truth is that I am only in my teens and I joined this forum because I love my family's doodle as much as all of you love yours.
The problem now is that I am leaving to work at a camp tomorrow for the whole summer. I won't have internet access.

I have showed my mom this forum and all of your suggestions and links. I'm helping her try to figure something out for Zeena (my aunt is her sister). I wanted to help on my own but I can't because I'm short on time.

The reason I'm telling you all this is because after today I personally won't be on to post anymore, but I still have my mom working on Zeena's situation. She feels just as bad as I do and will make sure that Zeena won't be euthanized.
For questions, please email my mom at [email protected] instead of [email protected]. I'm so sorry for this confusion!
I will be back on at the end of the summer to update everyone! I'm not just letting this slide, even if I'm leaving.

As for an update from our breeder, she isn't not being as cooperative as we had hoped. She told us to look for a rescue group before shipping Zeena back to her in order to save the stress of a flight. She hasn't offered to help with anything else.

And here is an updated picture:
 

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Thank you guys sooo much for everything! I have given my mom my password so she can update everyone.
I think my mom and I have talked to my aunt enough now that Zeena is out of danger of being killed, but they still don't want to keep her. :( I wish I were older and could work with her myself!
I actually went and saw Zeena today and she really is a great friendly dog.

My mom says that she will check up here hopefully Thursday since we will be on the road tomorrow.

Thanks again!!
 

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Hi everyone....

I'm back from camp and wanted to update you on Zeena. She's still at my aunt's, and because of an odd family situation, I'm actually living with my aunt, cousins, and Zeena now.

After experiencing Zeena firsthand for about a week now, I honestly can't see why everyone is so frusterated with her. She is very calm and has finally settled down with the two cats (after 10 months!). All she really lacks is consistant training and socialization. If she had been started on the right foot she would have been fine and she is fine for most of the day- just little things need work; whenever someone passes the house, she runs to them and barks like crazy.... I think my aunt thinks Zeena (or all dogs for that matter) should be preprogrammed not to run up to people...so it is automatically the dog's fault that they do :roll: . But having a fenced yard would also make that easier or solve the problem. She also plays pretty aggressively sometimes with Nellie, the other dog. I'm also told she still poops in the house sometimes, but I haven't seen that happen.

My aunt has picked up a brochure for a nearby dog training facility, but her opinion keeps changing whether she wants to keep Zeena or not. One day she really is a great dog, and the next she's a terror. sigh. However, In the mean time, one of our neighbor's daughter's works at a local animal rescue group and is looking for a potential family. For now, she's safe though. I've been kind of working with her...I'm no dog trainer, but I've watched the Dog Whisperer...lol. I started trying to get her to stop jumping on people (for some reason, this is the only thing my aunt doesn't mind. But its still not a good habit!) by keeping her up by holding her paws...I think someone mentioned that here on the forum...and already, I'm the only person she won't jump on anymore. Smart dog. But we'll see what happens...

I think that the threat of euthanasia at the beginning was out of stress and frustration (although I still think its absurd! :evil: ). Thanks to everyone for caring SO much!

I'll keep you updated.

Bianca

PS: Today is Boomer and Zeena's 1st birthday! 8)
 
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