dogs are great that way, they don't hold things against you!
when maggie got spayed, that lovely E-Collar stayed on her for oh about 20 minutes, before she figured out how to get it off and she chewed on it. believe me, it was on tight! she hated that thing. but since Molly is obsessed with licking, you probalby should keep it on, OR, a vet once told me when maggie had an open wound on her tummy (near her spay incision) to put a t-shirt on her that is tight enough that she'd have to work to get it out of the way to lick her wound. you might try that?
as for keeping her calm, just do your best. it is hard, we had 3 boys, too, and Maggie just loves to run and play with them. if they stay calm, chances are the dog will too.
i know it is hard to keep them kenneled up, we just had to do it for 2 days when Maggie had poop all over her fur (the groomer cleaned it off now) but dogs don't have long memories, so don't feel too guilty!
hang in there!
when maggie got spayed, that lovely E-Collar stayed on her for oh about 20 minutes, before she figured out how to get it off and she chewed on it. believe me, it was on tight! she hated that thing. but since Molly is obsessed with licking, you probalby should keep it on, OR, a vet once told me when maggie had an open wound on her tummy (near her spay incision) to put a t-shirt on her that is tight enough that she'd have to work to get it out of the way to lick her wound. you might try that?
as for keeping her calm, just do your best. it is hard, we had 3 boys, too, and Maggie just loves to run and play with them. if they stay calm, chances are the dog will too.
i know it is hard to keep them kenneled up, we just had to do it for 2 days when Maggie had poop all over her fur (the groomer cleaned it off now) but dogs don't have long memories, so don't feel too guilty!
hang in there!